From the Mind's Gables

I look out to those beginnings with hope, and love and fervour and anticipation. Because I have had my share of endings in a recent short period of time. Always more endings -the end of my short vacation, the end of my third year of medicine, the end of a sweet, brief romance. And with every end, a piece of me dies, making space for something new to grow in its place. I'm no botanist, no herbologist, but this is real. Summer's kiss, the caress of the sun, now a faint memory, life pleading, experience pushing, pressing, pulsing against me, within and through me, that I may shatter infinitely. And who will I be at the end of all that? What will I be like, once I've toughened up real good? Once I weld up and layer this formerly delicate armour? What kind of a person will breathe softly beneath it all? What kind of doctor will remain cloaked in the wine-toned gowns of the Earth, whose gravity pulls her face to the soil, filling her eyes, mouth and nostrils and then demanding that she see, speak, smell and live?

And yet the ending of all these, signal new beginnings too. It's a cliche. But death is necessary for rebirth. Pleasure, joy and fulfilment are known only through our experience and concept of their opposites and their lack. I'm finally going to be doing what I love in this next elective -I can only hope and pray that my path be revealed and confirmed in the coming three weeks, that I fall in love so deeply and so madly with my profession that I overflow, flooding, annhilating all other emotions, wounds, memories. The real romance should only ever be with oneself, one's work, one's God. The rest is for the meek hearted. Be your own rock in the storm. Let the thunder and the waves crash down and around -the water breaks, not the stone. It is hard and cold, perhaps even cracked in some places, but it does not weep nor does it fall to pieces.

As Anne Shirley would say, "Tomorrow is a new day, with no mistakes!" When we get the blessed opportunity for a fresh start, we'd best go into it a little wiser.