So here I am, back at Harvard, albeit just for a visit. I watch as sparkle-eyed, innocent, eager freshmen lunch with their parents in the Square, and as seasoned students and professors meander their way along these cobblestone streets, contemplating some academic dilemma, or perhaps a personal one. I arrived late last night to find the area bustling with youthful energy, in bowties, black suits, shimmery dresses, high heels. Oh how I miss this energy! This place I once called my home. Oh it's absolutely nostalgic as I sit here in the little coffee shop, with an unsweetened pumpkin spice chai and my laptop, the air alight with big ideas and plans, limitless dreams, potential, everything -hope and such a love of learning. It is truly most inspiring and wonderful. Even that awkwardness, that ridiculousness, that naivete even, is utterly endearing. I loved belonging here.
And I'm here to do some work... work on those residency applications, and revisit with old friends. All the worries of the world are across the border -here, it's just me. Who goes to Boston or Cambridge just to sit at their laptop and work? My mind has space here. Indeed, this is one of those places that prioritizes room for thinking, reflecting, and then turning that into something. Promising, for such an important task at hand, wouldn't you agree?
Being back here is like being in love, or perhaps, remembering an old love... in the most important way that is... to feel joy, lightness and inspired.
Friday, October 14, 2011
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Rejuvenating 24-hour Call: Baby Love, Human Love!
There's something very special about that post-call day. The call itself can sometimes be rejuvenating, believe it or not. Regular days may be interesting enough, following clinic patients and getting into a bit of a groove. But life's pebbles can stick in your shoe every now and then -the little worries, the trivial fretting, wondering why this thing turned out that way, or why someone would say that, or why they didn't say that.
Then suddenly, you're in scrubs for 24 hours. Seeing a slew of patients on an unpredictable labour and delivery ward, running from here to there, room to OR, to triage and back to the OR, down for a quick coffee and back to the floor. And there's the adrenaline rush of those life and death-moment emergencies. The pleasure of surgery, the joy in a new mother's face, the cry of a newborn babe. And perhaps you catch a couples hours wink of sleep. But you finish that call, refreshed, centred, content. This is the stuff that matters. This is where I belong, where I make a difference, where I feel so fulfilled and blessed and happy. And all those silly nothing thoughts kind of don't matter so much. The act of loving in this total-human way, with the movements of your body, running here, retracting there, snipping, the activity of your mind thinking through possibilities, options for management, and your heart cradling space and bringing comfort to your patients... this act of loving is enough.
It's kind of a metaphysical graceland... maybe Paul Simon was right, maybe we all will be received in that place, even after we've lost love, found love, lost love... opened up those windows into our hearts, where "everyone sees you're blown apart". But we've all been blown apart before. The miracle and beauty of the whole thing is how sweetly it all comes back together. And our capacity to continue loving in every aspect of our life... that people feel more understood and more loved as they look through their own windows into ours, and heal.
And those lovely fresh newborn angels. As Dickens said (or wrote, most likely), "I love these little people; and it is not a slight thing when they, who are so fresh from God, love us." It is also no slight thing when, hearts blown apart or not, we continue to love each other.
Then suddenly, you're in scrubs for 24 hours. Seeing a slew of patients on an unpredictable labour and delivery ward, running from here to there, room to OR, to triage and back to the OR, down for a quick coffee and back to the floor. And there's the adrenaline rush of those life and death-moment emergencies. The pleasure of surgery, the joy in a new mother's face, the cry of a newborn babe. And perhaps you catch a couples hours wink of sleep. But you finish that call, refreshed, centred, content. This is the stuff that matters. This is where I belong, where I make a difference, where I feel so fulfilled and blessed and happy. And all those silly nothing thoughts kind of don't matter so much. The act of loving in this total-human way, with the movements of your body, running here, retracting there, snipping, the activity of your mind thinking through possibilities, options for management, and your heart cradling space and bringing comfort to your patients... this act of loving is enough.
It's kind of a metaphysical graceland... maybe Paul Simon was right, maybe we all will be received in that place, even after we've lost love, found love, lost love... opened up those windows into our hearts, where "everyone sees you're blown apart". But we've all been blown apart before. The miracle and beauty of the whole thing is how sweetly it all comes back together. And our capacity to continue loving in every aspect of our life... that people feel more understood and more loved as they look through their own windows into ours, and heal.
And those lovely fresh newborn angels. As Dickens said (or wrote, most likely), "I love these little people; and it is not a slight thing when they, who are so fresh from God, love us." It is also no slight thing when, hearts blown apart or not, we continue to love each other.
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